Thanks Mac....it really does make a lot of difference in how you feel. It's a long story with what all I put up with and all before I had enough of it...but it takes two to screw a marriage up. Oh, and BTW---everyone wave to her and tell her "Hi" because I am sure she still lurks the board on a regular basis to make sure I'm not badmouthing her(since the divorce STILL isn't final). Matter of fact, I know she does...wasn't 2 hours after I changed the price of the house on the classifieds, and she was sending me e-mails biotching about changing the price without asking her. So......